The Ache of Silent Rejection

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Do you know the ache of wanting to speak with someone who keeps pulling away? That silent rejection when you’re longing for a conversation, but they choose to ignore you — it’s one of the loneliest feelings in the world. You try, you reach out, you hope for a response, and yet you’re met with vague answers or complete detachment, as if your voice doesn’t matter.

It hurts — deeply. It feels like you’re talking to yourself, holding onto a conversation that never truly begins. You keep questioning: Is my life just some cruel joke? Are they playing a prank on my feelings?

There’s an unbearable weight in these moments. A silent scream from the heart. You try to be strong because you have to — not because you want to. You carry the load, handle the responsibilities, and still get met with cold shoulders and empty excuses from the ones you expected warmth from.

I remember a time when I reached out, hoping for just one word, one simple exchange that could ease the burden of the silence, hoping for a conversation that would soothe my heart. But each time I called, my words felt like they disappeared into the void. It was as if my voice didn’t matter anymore. I couldn’t understand why, and the silence that followed was louder than anything they could have said.

Strength isn’t always a choice. Sometimes, it’s the only option when you’re left all alone to face everything. But the pain of being ignored by your loved ones — especially when all you needed was a simple, genuine conversation — is a wound that takes time to heal.

Even in the silence, there’s a part of you that learns to grow stronger, though the ache never fully disappears. The healing comes in quiet moments, when you realize you don’t need others’ words to validate your existence.

Have you ever considered what it feels like to stop trying? To stop speaking? To just let go because the silence from others became louder than your own voice?

Soul Notes By Saku

Sometimes, the loudest pain is in the silence. These are the thoughts that echo when words are left unanswered.

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60 responses to “The Ache of Silent Rejection”

  1. jeanvivace avatar

    I have stopped to try actually all with those who don’t care about me the way they should do. It just feeds the negative suggestions they share. There are always someones who listen and understand, so turn to the positive things and people and your healing happens more fast than you think. Very good post 👍 Have a beautiful and positive day 🌺

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Your words echo deeply Jean—letting go of those who can’t see your worth is a brave step toward healing.
      It’s true, the right souls will always listen, understand, and reflect the light you’ve carried all along.
      Thank you for this heartfelt reminder.
      Wishing you peace, love, and continued strength on your journey.

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      1. jeanvivace avatar

        Actually your very deep and beautiful post did it and I thank you for this because it was the reminder to me as much as to you 😊

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  2. Mia Winhertt avatar

    Very poignant topic. Your way of dealing with it in the post is equally sensitive and touching.
    Yes, some people make it very difficult to get across to.

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you, Mia, for this thoughtful comment.
      Some people do make it impossibly hard to reach—and that quiet distance can hurt more than words ever could…

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  3. Maya avatar

    Ahh yes, too real honestly

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Sometimes the truest things are the hardest to say out loud—thank you for seeing & feeling it too…

      Like

  4. JAM avatar

    Saku felt this in every cell of my being. Bravissima

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      JAM, Thank you so much!
      It truly means a lot to know my words resonated so deeply with you. Sending love and light your way.

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      1. JAM avatar

        love and light right back

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      2. soulnotesbysaku avatar

        Thankyou JAM 😊

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  5. Restored Heart avatar

    These are things that tears a person’s soul to shreds. Very touching indeed…

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you so much. You’re right — it cuts deep. I’m glad the words resonated with you, even in their ache…

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  6. sibongilecharitysehlake avatar

    I know silent rejection is worse and what is worse you keep on trying to reach out and hurting yourself.

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Yes… it’s that quiet ache of hoping in silence, isn’t it?
      You reach out, not to demand, but to be seen — and yet, the silence answers louder than words.
      It’s a cruel kind of hope that bruises the soul. Thank you for sharing how you feel.

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  7. LaDonna Remy avatar

    This is a moving post. Silence does speak loudly and I think means different things for different people. Its so important for each of us to trust ourselves to know what we most need. ❤️ Sometimes we show up as our wisest and healthiest self and the other isn’t quiet there yet or able to hear.

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      You’re absolutely right, Remy!— Silence carries different meanings and learning to trust our own self amidst that silence is so important.

      Sometimes, the hardest part is accepting that others may not be ready to receive what we’re trying to give.

      But honouring our own truth is where the healing begins.

      Thank you so much for sharing how you feel, Remy!

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      1. LaDonna Remy avatar

        ❤️❤️

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  8. cookie avatar

    I feel your honesty, and your heart.

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you for sharing how you feel – that truly means a lot.
      Writing from the heart is never easy, but it’s where the truth lives.

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      1. cookie avatar

        🤍

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  9. noah_arkenswagg avatar

    I loved this post. I know the feeling. And getting stronger is indeed the play. It might seem sad, but I’ll never let another become important enough that i can be made to feel this way again.

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you so much for sharing how you felt. I truly relate to what you said — that kind of pain leaves a mark, and strength becomes the only way forward.
      Like you said, we must learn not to give anyone the power to silence our worth.

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      1. noah_arkenswagg avatar

        Well said !

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  10. pk 🌎 avatar

    Lovely post 💓

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you, pk!

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  11. Mukund Karadkhedkar avatar

    Actually ignorance kills. Especially when you are seeking attention. Share the same feelings Saku 👍 Stay blessed

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you for understanding! Yes, that silent ignorance can be truly painful. Stay blessed too!

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  12. Swamigalkodi Astrology avatar

    Inspiring narrative

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you! I’m glad the narrative spoke to you. Your words mean a lot!

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  13. Sanjay Ranout avatar

    Those times and experiences teach us an important thing that everything we think as best for us might not be what God has planned
    and Tests, how strong our feelings are as feeling by itself even when it doesn’t matter to concerned person

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      You’re so right!
      Sometimes, what we think is best for us isn’t part of the bigger plan, and those tests really show us the strength of our feelings, even when they aren’t acknowledged.
      Thank you for sharing this perspective!

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  14. Sanjay Ranout avatar

    Time tests and teach some important lesss

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Absolutely, Sanjay, time has a way of revealing what we truly need to learn. Thank you for your insight!

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  15. pk world 🌎 avatar

    Nice post 💜❤️💗

    Blessed and Happy saturday 🌷

    Grettings 🇪🇦🌎

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you, pk world 🌎

      Like

  16. Priti avatar

    Sometimes silent reactions hurt more than talking! Well shared 💐

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Absolutely, Priti. Silence can speak louder than words ever could. Thank you so much for reading and for your kind words!

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      2. soulnotesbysaku avatar

        Done!

        Like

  17. imdanishmattoo avatar

    Very well written. This hit hard. It’s crazy how silence can be louder than words sometimes.
    Really needed to read this today.👏❤️

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you for your kind words! I’m so touched!!!

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  18. proffahdnasr avatar

    Beautiful blog 💓 I hope you’ll follow mine too, and we’ll read each other. Thank you so much and BLESSINGS ☘🍁🌿

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  19. thebpdcrisis avatar

    Heartbreaking and relatable. Beautiful blog, by the way.

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you for your lovely words! I appreciate it very much!

      Like

  20. LoveLifeHappiness&More💙💙 avatar

    Well shared piece! 🌺

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Appreciate your lovely comment! 😍

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      1. LoveLifeHappiness&More💙💙 avatar

        You’re most welcome.

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  21. Tate Basildon avatar

    I’ve been there—reaching out, hoping for a response, and getting met with radio silence. It’s like shouting into the void and wondering if your voice even matters. Thank you for putting into words what so many of us feel but struggle to express. Your vulnerability really resonates.

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you for your heartfelt comment!

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  22. Viona Rasugu avatar

    Sad I can relate

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, Viona!!!

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  23. Kevin avatar

    This really hit home—thank you for writing something so honest and heartfelt.

    Liked by 2 people

    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      I’m really glad the words touched you. Silent rejection can be such a quiet, heavy pain and it leaves deep echoes. Your comment truly means a lot, Kevin. Thank you!

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  24. veerites avatar

    Thanks ❤️

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  25. Chaya Sheela avatar

    This post touched my heart.
    This sentence is so eloquent, “Sometimes, the loudest pain is in the silence.”
    Love

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    1. soulnotesbysaku avatar

      Thank you for your lovely comment, Chaya! 😊
      This means a lot!

      Liked by 1 person

      1. Chaya Sheela avatar

        You are welcome. ❤️

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  26. Dr. Tushar Ramchandra avatar

    Silence can hurt more than words. But as you said, healing begins when we realize our worth isn’t defined by someone else’s response. Powerful share😎

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